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How Rest, Nature, and Movement Helped Me Reset During a Tough Week
Darlene Hawley
A real-life story on navigating burnout, honoring invisible illness, and finding peace in unexpected places.
Some weeks feel heavier than others.
A few weeks ago I had one of those weeks while my kids were home for Spring Break.
I was in a funk, and couldn’t seem to shake my low energy no matter how many to-dos I checked off or how many deep breaths I took between Zoom calls.
I needed a reset.
So, I decided to take a day off and head to the beach with my kids for the day. A day of play, sunshine, sand, salty air and my toes in the sand felt like the perfect escape. But life had other plans.
As soon as we got on the road, lights started popping up on the dashboard. Error codes, warnings. (it turns out it's my transmission)
It was one of those moments where you just sigh a long deep breath and go, of course. The beach was out.
I had a choice: turn the car back around and go back home and call it a day, or find another way to shift the energy.
We ended up being right off the exit to Fallbrook and decided to go for a hike instead. The trail was quiet. The air was fresh. The sun peeked through the trees. My kids were laughing, exploring, and moving their bodies. And somewhere between the first mile and the last, something shifted.
My mood lifted. My body softened. My breath deepened.
It wasn’t the original plan, yet it was exactly what I needed.
Sometimes, self-care looks like a full beach day. Other times, it’s simply choosing to step away from the screen, move your body, and let nature do its thing.
We often wait until we’re completely burnt out to care for ourselves. What if we didn’t? What if we paid attention to the subtle signals... the funk, the fatigue, the brain fog, the feeling of being disconnected and gave ourselves what we needed before we crashed?
That day was a reminder.
Movement matters
Being present with the people I love helps ground me
Plans falling apart can make space for something even better
Caring for myself doesn’t need to be complicated
If you’re in a funk right now, know you’re not alone.
Maybe it’s your sign to take a walk around the block and look at all the blooming flowers, get some fresh air, or just give yourself a moment to breathe and reset.
You deserve it.
Here are a few simple reset ideas that have helped me over the past few weeks when I feel off:
Step outside for a 10-minute walk (leave the phone on the kitchen counter and just enjoy the fresh air)
Put on your favorite playlist and move your body (here is one i use when I need to get energized) https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7ca6rFiMjcURoms5O0xtED?si=I4pJK4Y_RaayONEE5Opdaw&pt=51ebf2fe076e364704b3f68046553d75&pi=u-
Call a friend who gets you... no fixing, just connection
Take a tech-free hour (or even 15 minutes)
Make a warm cup of chai and sip it slowly, without multitasking
Write down 3 things that are going well... even if they’re tiny
Let go of the plan and follow what feels good in the moment
Sometimes the smallest shift can create the biggest ripple.
The truth is, many of us are carrying things others can’t see... whether it’s the weight of an invisible illness, emotional burnout, feeling like you're alone, or simply the quiet exhaustion of being everything to everyone. And while the world often celebrates pushing through, I’ve learned that our true strength lies in knowing when to pause, reset, refresh and care for yourself.
So let me ask you this, What would shift if you gave yourself permission to rest... not because you’ve earned it, but simply because you need it?
You don’t have to wait for a breakdown to prioritize your well-being. You can choose to listen now.
Speaking of refreshing, does your signature offer need a refresh or do you need to create a new offer for this new time?
Last weeks Refresh Your Signature Offer roundtable was exactly the kind of conversation we need more of in business: honest, vulnerable, supportive, and strategic.
Women from all kinds of industries came together with one shared truth:
We are still wildly passionate about our work... but we’re also feeling the shifts in buyer behavior, sales cycles, and messaging that just isn’t landing like it used to.
The desire to make a real impact hasn’t changed. But the way we communicate our value? That needs a refresh.
If you missed the roundtable—or if you attended and left thinking “I know I need help doing this for myself”—I created something for you:
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β¨Ready to Own Your Story and Attract Your Dream Clients?β¨
If you’re ready to stop second-guessing your message and start using storytelling as a powerful tool to connect, inspire, and sell—then I’d love to invite you to my It’s Time to Own Your Story: Mini-Course.
In this self-paced course, you’ll learn how to:
βοΈ Identify the key moments in your story that captivate your audience.
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Plus, you’ll get a
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personal feedback on your brand story—so you can start sharing with confidence.
Hey There!
I'm Darlene
As a mother, wife, connector, and dream builder, I’m Darlene Hawley, the founder of DarleneHawley.com and an Executive Leadership & Businesss Coach dedicated to empowering leaders like you.
My passion lies in helping ambitious professionals cultivate their unique leadership style while crafting an authentic and impactful personal brand. Through my coaching, we’ll work together to build a solid foundation that not only inspires your team but also drives results and growth within your organization.
Since 2007, I have been committed to guiding leaders and entrepreneurs in launching and scaling their businesses with confidence and clarity.
Today, I focus on supporting women in reaching their leadership goals and living their dream lives—all while balancing the joys of raising my family and creating meaningful memories each day.
ο»ΏTogether, we’ll transform your challenges into opportunities, allowing you to lead with authenticity and inspire those around you.
The Day I Learned That Selling Isn’t About Selling Ten years ago, I was on a sales call with someone who I knew would benefit from working with me. I had all my points prepared, I knew the value of my offer, and the moment I started “explaining” the coaching package, I could feel her pulling back. She went quiet. Her energy shifted. You know that moment when you can tell someone is already backing away even though you're still mid-sentence? I paused, smiled and took a deep breath and said, “Can I tell you a quick story?” I shared how I’d once been in her exact shoes... unsure, overwhelmed, and wondering if investing in myself was really the right move. I told her how I’d made that leap anyway… and shared what had changed for me during that process. That’s when she leaned in. She wasn’t sold by my offer. She was moved by the story. And that’s when I realized: Storytelling sells—without the “salesy used car salesman” vibe. Why Storytelling Works So Well in Sales Let’s be honest...no one wants to feel sold to, yet we all love to buy. What people do want is to feel seen, heard and valued. And storytelling does exactly that. In fact, studies show that people remember stories up to 22x more than facts alone. And even more powerful? A story creates emotion... and emotion drives action. If you’re struggling to convert prospects into clients, it’s not that your offer isn’t good. It’s that you might not be telling the right story to make someone feel why it matters. 3 Types of Stories That Sell (Without Feeling Pushy) 1. The “I’ve Been Where You Are” Story This is your empathy bridge. When you share a relatable story from your own experience, your audience sees themselves in you. You’re not just a coach, consultant, or expert.... you’re a human being who gets it. Example: “I used to feel invisible online. I would write a post, hit publish, and hear crickets. It wasn’t until I started sharing my story that people began engaging, reaching out, and eventually becoming a client.” This story builds trust and shows them, “If she figured this out, maybe I can too.” 2. The Client Success Story People like proof, evidence of how it will work. And no, this doesn’t mean sharing stats or results in bullet points. It means telling the transformation journey. Example: “Jackie, a life coach, came to me unsure of what to say in her content. After taking my storytelling course, she started sharing her story in her newsletter and during conversations and landed three new clients within the first month. Why? Because her audience felt connected to her.” It’s not about showing off, it’s about showing what’s possible. 3. The Vision Story Paint the picture of what life could look like for them if they take action. The power of this story lies in aspiration. Example: “Imagine waking up with clarity around your message. You open your laptop, write a post with confidence, and get a message from someone who says, ‘I felt like you were speaking directly to me.’ That’s what happens when your story connects.” When people can see their future selves in the story you tell, they want more of what you have to offer. How to Start Using These Stories in Your Sales Process Now that you’ve got the story types, here’s where to use them: On your website – especially your About page and sales pages In your emails – every time you’re adding value or selling connect with a story On strategy calls – as a way to shift from pressure to connection On social media – to build relationships and nurture your community Tip: Start building a Story Bank. Open a notes tab or a doc and jot down 2–3 small moments from your life or business each day. That way, when it’s time to write content or show up for a launch... you’re never starting from scratch. Selling Through Story Isn’t Manipulative—It’s Meaningful When you tell stories with heart and authenticity, you’re not convincing people to buy, you’re helping them see that they’re not alone. You’re offering a way to move forward. And when you do that? Selling doesn’t feel awkward, It feels like service. One of my mentors, Kendrick Shope, always says: “Selling is helping.” And she’s absolutely right. Because when you sell through storytelling, you’re not pushing, you’re guiding. You’re inviting people into a transformation that you know is possible. When you lead with your heart and with empathy and share your truth, you're not just building a business... you’re building trust What might shift for you if you started weaving more of your story into how you connect with your team, clients and community?
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Welcome back to the Attract and Stand Out Podcast! In this inspiring episode, host Darlene Hawley chats with her long-time friend Danielle Hawthorne, a compassionate disruptor and truth teller devoted to honoring her worth and supporting others on their journey. Danielle shares her path to founding 'Worthy of Dignity,' a company dedicated to teaching leaders to recognize and elevate their teams based on their core values and holistic well-being. Discover how Danielle's experiences in toxic work environments led her to prioritize health and wellness, reducing burnout, and increasing team morale. Learn actionable insights on how leaders can foster inclusive and compassionate workplaces. Don't miss exciting details about Danielle's upcoming women's conference, 'Enough 2025,' aimed at empowering women to embrace their worth without having to earn it. Tune in for powerful stories, practical tips, and much more! 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 01:16 Danielle's Journey to Worthy of Dignity 03:09 Impact of Leadership and Wellness 05:45 Creating a Culture of Value and Respect 13:23 Leading with Curiosity and Human Connection 16:55 Challenges and Changes in Leadership 17:36 The Power of Sharing Personal Stories 18:48 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth 19:21 The Importance of Rest and Setting Boundaries 21:46 Practical Tips for Slowing Down 25:47 Upcoming Women's Conference: Enough 2025 29:04 Ways to Work with Danielle 30:06 Rapid Fire Questions: Getting to Know Danielle 35:36 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Welcome back to the Attract and Stand Out Podcast! In this inspiring episode, host Darlene Hawley sits down with transformational coach and author Lenore Kantor. They dive into Lenore's journey from corporate executive to transformational coach, where she now helps high achievers unlock greater personal growth, professional fulfillment, and higher income. Lenore discusses the importance of authenticity, the challenges of entrepreneurship, and her new book, 'So What Do You Do? The Authentic Alchemy Path to Find Who You Are'. Whether you're a leader looking to navigate career transitions or an entrepreneur seeking authentic alignment in your work, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to discover how to embrace change, align with your true self, and show up authentically in your professional and personal life. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:51 Lenore's Background and Journey 03:12 Navigating Career Transitions 06:36 Challenges of Entrepreneurship 09:11 Adapting to Change 14:50 Authenticity and Leadership 23:52 Future Plans and Projects 26:59 Rapid Fire Questions 30:14 Conclusion and Farewell ------- Lenore Kantor is a transformational coach, author, mentor, career advisor and inspirational speaker who guides smart high-achievers to greater personal growth, professional fulfillment and higher income by overcoming their blocks to creating soul-aligned work. She is the author of So, What Do You Do? The Authentic Alchemy Path to Find Who You Are, an unconventional guidebook and eight-step path for conscious leaders to discover their work in the world (launching February ’25). Lenore's holistic multi-disciplinary approach evolved over 30+ years as a former corporate marketing executive, soulpreneur and founder of Growth Warrior. Lenore integrates empathy with no BS, business strategy, marketing and product launch expertise with intuitive insight and multiple healing modalities. She's a former corporate marketing executive and has been a strategic advisor and outsourced CMO to high-growth businesses, mentored founders across multiple startup accelerators, and is a Capstone and Career Advisor to Bard’s MBA in Sustainability and part of Columbia’s Career Coaching Network. www.growthwarrior.co https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenorekantor https://www.instagram.com/lenorekantor/ https://www.facebook.com/growthcoach/ ---- Hi I'm Darlene Hawley, and I help entrepreneurs and executive leaders find their voice and mastering communication in high-stakes conversations and presentations, whether in the boardroom, on a sales call, or around the dinner table. Grab my 10 Do's and Don't for Effective Daring Conversations: https://mailchi.mp/297e8105e904/communicationguide Grab my 6 Steps To Attract & Stand Out digital guide, a free roadmap to create a successful business with less hustle and more ease: https://bit.ly/attractandstandoutonline Grab a Chai and let's Connect: https://darlenehawley.com https://linkedin.com/in/darlenehawley
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